Saturday, February 27, 2021

 Kris/Sacrament Talk 1/31/21

Coming unto Christ through Fasting and Fast Offerings


The Savior loves all of us. We are all his children and we know that when we offer help to one of his children in any way at any time by any means He tells us that is the same as if we had offered it to him.


We know this because he tells us in Matthew 25:34-40 we can look forward to having this conversation with him at some time in the future. He tells us that we gave him a drink when He was thirsty, we fed Him when he was hungry, we visited him when he was sick, clothed him when he was naked.  We asked him, Lord, when did we do this? We don’t remember doing these things for you.


Matthew 25:40

40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

Then he tells those that did not do these things that they have no place with Him in the Father’s kingdom, and in verse 46 he says

46 And these shall go away into aeverlasting bpunishment: but the crighteous into dlife eeternal.


Given the amount of poor, homeless, and suffering people in the world  how could we ever do enough to be welcomed by Him, to come unto Him?  the numbers grow ever bigger and our ability to help seems practically insignificant.


The Savior himself gives us an answer to this. When, prior to His betrayal and Crucifixion, Mary anointed Jesus’s head with an expensive burial ointment, Judas Iscariot protested this extravagance and “murmured against her.”

Jesus said:

“Why trouble ye her? she hath wrought a good work. …

“She hath done what she could.”

“She hath done what she could”! Isn’t this a perfect answer? To do what we can where we are right now.

So what is it that you and I can do to help these multitudes of  poor, homeless, needy, dispossessed or hungry? 

How can we do what we can so we can come unto Christ and be welcomed with open arms?

The Lord counsels us how in Isaiah 58:6-11

Isaiah 58:6–11

6 Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke?

7 Is it not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house? when thou seest the naked, that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thine own flesh?


We can fast and give a generous fast offering! And then the Lord tells us the blessings that will follow:


8 ¶ Then shall thy light break forth as the morning, and thine health shall spring forth speedily: and thy righteousness shall go before thee; the glory of the Lord shall be thy rearward.

9 Then shalt thou call, and the Lord shall answer; thou shalt cry, and he shall say, Here I am. If thou take away from the midst of thee the yoke, the putting forth of the finger, and speaking vanity;

10 And if thou draw out thy soul to the hungry, and satisfy the afflicted soul; then shall thy light rise in obscurity, and thy darkness be as the noonday:

11 And the Lord shall guide thee continually, and satisfy thy soul in drought, and make fat thy bones: and thou shalt be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not.


Showing compassion to those in need and giving of our abundance to help others is an ancient principle. The Lord commanded Moses, 


Deut 15:7-8

“Thou shalt not harden thine heart, nor shut thine hand from thy poor brother: But thou shalt open thine hand wide unto him, and shalt surely lend him sufficient for his need” 


Alma 1:30

“In their prosperous circumstances, they did not send away any who were naked, or that were hungry, or that were athirst, or that were sick, or that had not been nourished; and they did not set their hearts upon riches; therefore they were liberal to all, both old and young, both bond and free, both male and female, whether out of the church or in the church, having no respect to persons as to those who stood in need” (Alma 1:30).


The Prophet Joseph Smith

 “Let this be an [example] to all saints, and there will never be any lack for bread: When the poor are starving, let those who have, fast one day and give what they otherwise would have eaten to the bishops for the poor, and everyone will abound for a long time. … And so long as the saints will all live to this principle with glad hearts and cheerful countenances they will always have an abundance.”6

The Lord gives us the opportunity every month to participate and do what we can by fasting and giving a generous fast offering. Some of what we give may be used locally - what doesn’t get used locally will be sent to the stake or salt lake to be used where it is needed across the world

The process of fasting and giving a fast offering has so many blessings! I’ve been amazed as I’ve read and studied this past week. Multitudes of blessings that come from this keeping this commandment.

When we go without food for a little while,  it helps us both physically and spiritually. “Periodic fasting,” explained President Ezra Taft Benson, “can help clear up the mind and strengthen the body and the spirit.”1 President Heber J. Grant promised that “every living soul among the Latter-day Saints that fasts two meals once a month will be benefitted spiritually and be built up in the faith of the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ—benefitted spiritually in a wonderful way.”2 President Joseph F. Smith said that “such a fast would be a cure for every practical and intellectual error; vanity would disappear, love for our fellows would take its place, and we would gladly assist the poor and the needy.”3

Pres Kimball: As givers gain control of their desires and properly see other needs in light of their own wants, then the powers of the gospel are released in their lives. They learn that by living the great law of consecration they insure not only temporal salvation but also spiritual sanctification.

President Spencer W. Kimball called failing to follow that law a sin of omission with a heavy cost. He wrote: “Rich promises are made by the Lord to those who fast and assist the needy. … Inspiration and spiritual guidance will come with righteousness and closeness to our Heavenly Father. To omit to do this righteous act of fasting would deprive us of these blessings.”3

Blessing victims of natural disasters, war, and tragedies around the world to help someone whose relief the Lord will feel as if it were His own. At the Oct 2019 Conference President Nelson gave us a litany of the ways the Church has helped countless numbers of people through fast offerings and humanitarian aid projects:

He talked about his first visit to West Africa in 1986. The members had little in terms of material wealth and Pres Nelson asked the Stake President how he cared for members that had so little. He said if members could afford 2 meals a day they needed no help, but if they could only afford 1 or no meals the bishops provided food from the fast offerings.  Then he related that their contributions usually exceeded their expenses and surplus fast offerings were sent elsewhere where the need exceeded theirs. This is truly a testimony of the power of fasting and giving generously.

When we fast we feel hunger. Being hungry for a short time helps us to have some understanding of the want that others might be feeling. When we give to the bishop an offering to relieve the suffering of others, we not only do something sublime for others, but we do something wonderful for ourselves as well. King Benjamin taught in Mosiah 4:26 that our sins can be remitted.

26 And now, for the sake of these things which I have spoken unto you—that is, for the sake of retaining a remission of your sins from day to day, that ye may walk guiltless before God—I would that ye should impart of your substance to the poor, every man according to that which he hath, such as feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, visiting the sick and administering to their relief, both spiritually and temporally, according to their wants.

Amulek, explained that often our prayers have no power because we have turned our backs on the needy.9 

Alma 34:28

28 And now behold, my beloved brethren, I say unto you, do not suppose that this is all; for after ye have done all these things, if ye turn away the needy, and the naked, and visit not the sick and afflicted, and impart of your substance, if ye have, to those who stand in need—I say unto you, if ye do not any of these things, behold, your prayer is vain, and availeth you nothing, and ye are as hypocrites who do deny the faith.

If you feel that Heavenly Father is not listening to your petitions or you need your sins remitted (and which of us does not?), ask yourself if you are listening to the cries of the poor, the sick, the hungry, and the afflicted all around you by giving a generous fast offering

Abundance & Prosperity:


The widow of Zarephath:

During a time of famine, the prophet Elijah called upon a widow, who had no means to feed him, to provide him with water and bread.  Her response was:

“As the Lord thy God liveth, I have not a cake, but an handful of meal in a barrel, and a little oil in a cruse: and, behold, I am gathering two sticks, that I may go in and dress it for me and my son, that we may eat it, and die.”

The prophet promised her that “the barrel of meal shall not waste, neither shall the cruse of oil fail. …”

 

15 And she awent and did according to the saying of Elijah: and she, and he, and her house, did eat many days.

Story in July 2016 Ensign of a family’s testimony of increasing their fast offerings at the invitation of their stake president during a time of economic crisis reminds me of this story. Their stake president did not specify how much to give but they remembered this promise given by President Marion G Romney, First Counselor in the First Presidency:


“I am a firm believer that you cannot give to the Church and to the building up of the kingdom of God and be any poorer financially. … A person could not give a crust to the Lord without receiving a loaf in return. That’s been my experience. If the members of the Church would double their fast-offering contributions, the spirituality in the Church would double. We need to keep that in mind and be liberal in our contributions.”2

As this family increased their fast offering donations they saw many blessings. Their gas tank seemed to stay full longer, they spent less on groceries, their children asked for less and their was less selfishness in their home. Their food storage seemed to be multiplying


During financial difficulties, giving a generous fast offering and helping care for the needy can be difficult, particularly when we are—like the widow of Zarephath—among the needy. Giving a generous fast offering, no matter the amount, requires faith in the Lord and His promise to care for us. But the Lord fulfills His promises, and our family’s experience taught us that the more we are willing to share, the more we are blessed.


As we considered giving a more generous fast offering, we remembered that a person cannot give a crust to the Lord without receiving a loaf in return.


Pres Kimball 

“I think we should … give, instead of the amount saved by our two meals of fasting, perhaps much, much more—ten times more when we are in a position to do it.” (Conference Report, Apr. 1974, p. 184.)

If we give a generous fast offering, we shall increase our own prosperity both spiritually and temporally.

Protecting ourselves against economic need

Elder Marion G. Romney, then of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles,13 June 1956),:

 “I believe the most practical way to protect one’s self and family against economic need is to make liberal contributions for the support to the Lord’s poor according to the law of the Gospel. I am not promising you riches, but I am telling you that this is the most practical way to protect yourselves and families from actual need.

“I believe that it is consistent with the laws of Heaven that one’s right of reliance upon the Lord for protection against want is in direct proportion to his own liberality in sustaining the Lord’s poor.”15

Elder Harold B. Lee, then of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, said, “If you would qualify so that in times of trouble you could call and the Lord would … say, ‘Here I am,’ … you must observe the fast day of the Lord and deal out your ‘bread to the hungry.’”14

Pres Kimball: Fast offerings have long constituted the means from which the needs of the Lord’s poor have been provided. . . . If we give a generous fast offering, we shall increase our own prosperity both spiritually and temporally.


Kathleen H. Hughes

First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency Oct 2004

Finally, I’m coming to understand the meaning and importance of our offerings—specifically, our tithes and fast offerings. Throughout the Doctrine and Covenants the Lord admonishes us to care for each other and to give of our temporal resources to build the kingdom of God. In fact, our willingness to do this is one of the prerequisites for the Lord’s returning to the earth. Though each of our circumstances may differ, it is important for us to give all that we can. The Lord has seldom required individuals to give all, but it is important for Him to know that we would and could do it, if asked. In one stake where my husband and I lived, our stake president challenged members to double their fast offerings and prepare for the blessings that would come. I can now bear personal testimony that the Lord will bless us in unfathomable ways if we are true and faithful in giving generous

Victor L Brown, presiding bishop, May 1991 shared a letter received from Elder John H. Groberg,(the other side of heaven) John H Groberg who at that time was president of the Tongan Mission. He went to visit a Tongan widow who lived on a very remote island in extreme poverty.  He said when he got there it had just rained and there was mud and decay and the unpleasant smell of drying fish, but the pleasure of meeting with this woman soon pushed the unpleasant circumstances into the background. Then he goes on:

“As we conversed in her fluid native tongue and she told of her love for and faith in the Church and of all the blessings she had received, I could not help but think about her apparently miserable circumstances. … All sorts of ideas went through my mind, and I must have let my thoughts wander as I suddenly became aware that somewhere between phrases about blessings and poverty and service she had gone to her hut and was now returning with a small knotted rag.

“Suddenly my mind seemed to fill with light, and the words ‘fast offerings’ flooded in. I was so excited with the idea that had come so suddenly and so clearly, that you can imagine my utter amazement and unpreparedness when she took a threepence (a coin worth about 3¢) from her rag and said softly, ‘Here is my fast offering … to help the poor.’

“I wanted to explain that fast offering was to help her, not for her to help others. The explanation never came, for as I looked through misty eyes, first at the threepence then back at the good sister, the whole scene changed.

President Eyring shared the story of a sister in Sierra Leone, one of the poorest countries in the world.  During a civil war in 1991 the entire country was in chaos, tens of thousands lost their lives and more than two million people were displaced.  She tells of running to hide in the bush with her children to avoid being killed with only a blanket because it was the first thing she could grab as she ran out of her home. “Sister Turay speaks of her gratitude for a mission president who would make his way into the war-torn country with [money] in his pocket.” Those funds, from the fast-offering donations of people like you, allowed the Saints to buy food that most Sierra Leoneans could not afford.9 A visitor from the United States noticed her well worn scriptures and picked them on.

He held the scriptures in his “hand and gently turned the pages. As [he did, he found a] yellow copy of a tithing donation slip. [He] could see that, in a country where [a dollar was worth its] weight in gold, Abie Turay had paid one dollar as her tithing, one dollar to the missionary fund, and one dollar as a fast offering for those who, in her words, were ‘truly poor.’”

The visitor closed Sister Turay’s scriptures and thought, as he stood with this faithful African mother, that he was on sacred ground.11

In Malachi 3:8

8 aWill a man brob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In ctithes and offerings.

Yes, tithing is a commandment, but so are our offerings. 

I can testify to these blessings also.  When Chip and I lived in Phoenix our Stake President read us President Romney’s challenge and promise and we increased our fast offerings and have continued to do so over the years. I have spent some time this week contemplating all the blessings both spiritual and temporal we have received because of following this council.  I believe that many of the opportunities we’ve had, ideas that have come to us, things that we may have considered “good luck” are in fact blessings the Lord has given us for paying our tithes and offerings. As President Romney  said we cannot give a crust of bread to the Lord and not receive an entire loaf in return.

As we give generous fast offerings, we literally feed the hungry, bind up the wounds of the sick, and clothe the naked. By so doing, we not only bless the lives of others, but we open the windows of heaven and qualify ourselves to be welcomed back into his presence - to come unto him.

 




Monday, January 25, 2016

Personal Religious Habits

"These personal religious habits--obedience, scripture study, prayer, and fasting--strengthened the sons of Mosiah. The lack of these same personal religious habits was a major reason that Laman and Lemuel were left vulnerable to the temptation to murmur and doubt." - Elder James B. Martino Of the Seventy, October 2015

I read Elder Martino’s talk this morning and really loved it.  He asked why Laman and Lemuel had had many of the same experiences as Nephi, but yet they doubted and Nephi did not.  He went through other scripture stores along with his own conversion story.  At the end he concluded with the paragraph above, which is the answer. I truly wonder how many people that have left the church or fell into inactivity were doing these things - being obedient to the commandments, studying the scripture and praying regularly along with regular fasting - personal religious habits - and still fell away from the church. Very few I would think. This idea of personal religious habits is a key to keeping our testimonies strong, holding on to your children and our marriages and remaining faithful and enduring to the end. Personal religious habits are the key to having the companionship of the Holy Ghost with us at all times, who testifies to us of truth and warns us of spiritual danger and becomes our guide to living our daily life.  Without him we make ourselves vulnerable to doubt and fear, which leads to “the dark side” as Yoda would say. I believe this is true and so commit again to daily scripture study and prayer, keeping the commandments and fasting, knowing that these things soften my heart and let me the promptings of the Holy Ghost.

Thursday, December 10, 2015

Thanksgiving 2015 talk

Thanksgiving talk 2015

Today Chip and I talked in church about gratitude. Here are the remarks I wrote:
Share experience about car trIp home with little girls
Christmas 1982, clairice 2 ½, Britta 9 months
old car - 1970 Plymouth Satellite
We had made a surprise trip home to Sidney for christmas and brought my brother and his wife who were going to school in Bozeman at the time.
way back to Logan we stopped and dropped off my brother and his wife and spending the night at their teeny tiny married student housing apartment and were almost to Big Sky when our car made a horrible noise
We knew we had to stop at Big Sky and see what it was
At that time Big Sky consisted of a restaurant/bar, a laundromat and a garage
We stopped  at the garage and the mechanic looked at it and announed it was wheel bearing
He could fix it but couldn't get the part from bozeman until the next day
Spent the day with the babies at the laundromat.  Not fun.
Mechanic gave the 4 of us a ride back to my brothers apartment where we spent a 2nd night on a cold linoleium floor.
Mechanic picked us back up in the morning with the part and we all went back to spend a 2nd day at the laundromat while he fixed the car
Later in the day the car was fixed and we were all packed back up in our car and pulling out of the garage when the guy started flagging us down! I was like, Chip, just keep driving, don't stop!!
The mechanic could see that wheel was crooked and the wrong part had been put in the car and it had to be fixed.
We all drove back down to my brothers tiny apartment for the 3rd night in a row with our babies in the mechanic's car - I don't think my brother was especially happy to see us all again - and then back up to Big Sky the next morning for a 3rd day at the laundromat.
Later that day the car was fixed  (and we had maxed out our credit card and cleaned out what little we had in savings)and driveable and we were headed back to Logan.
 I felt so grateful and happy that we had finally made it home safely!
One of the very first things we did when we got back to Logan was dump that old green Plymouth and buy a new Toyota Tercel.  For weeks and months after that stressful and unpleasant experience I thanked God for our little Tercel that was dependable and never left us stranded!
I was unhappy, frustrated and unpleasant a good part of these 3 days. I did not handle this situation well 
In the scheme of things this is a minor inconvenience and a funny story AFTER it happens.  We all have days like this - the cookies burn, your kid tells you the night before its due he has to do a science project, etc.
Many things are much more serious anad are never funny
Day Chip came home when I was pregnant with Jessie, our 4th and announced a bunch of people were  laid off.
Chip looks in the mirror and notices he has a lump on one side of his throat and it turns out to be cancer
Many of you have been through much more serious things than this - things that tear your heart out.
Nevertheless, this is part of life isn't it? We all experience heartache, pain, sorrow, frustration and unhappiness - some because of our own actions and some because of others.  No one gets through life scott free and without suffering.
a wise woman, a BYU professor said
I have learned that, regardless of circumstance, for some people there is no joy; for others there is only joy. Some of us experience catastrophe in our lives; others create catastrophe in our lives. For some, there are a few bad days; for others there are only bad days.
What makes the difference?
1. We must make the decision to be happy! How can we make the decision to be happy when things are just not going well or we are facing trials and difficulty? Can we choose to be happy?
Let me give you an example of how we can:  If you are having an argument with your spouse or yelling at your kids  and all the sudden the doorbell rings, what do you do? Put on happy face and go to the door and say hello! You act pleasant! You chose to change your attitude - just like that! 
Here's another example: Let's say I offered you $10,000 a week to not be in a bad mood and act happy.  Could you do it! I bet you could and would! 
We've all heard the expression “Fake it till you make it.” Act happy, and you’ll be happier.“
It is How we act that affects others, not how we feel.
 Does your happiness affect others? Ask a child that grows up in a home with an unhappy parent. Ask a spouse that lives with an unhappy mate. Ask a person that works day in and day out with an unhappy coworker. We may not be free to control whether we feel happy all the time, but we can control whether we act happy present a happy countenace to others regardless of our circumstances. I think this part of
Alma 5:14
14 And now behold, I ask of you, my brethren of the church, have ye spiritually been born of God? Have ye received his image in your countenances? Have ye experienced this mighty change in your hearts?
The decision to be happy is reflected in our countenance.
Most of our trials come to us unsolicited. We surely haven't aske for them but we do have the agency to choose our attitude towards them.
Abrahm Lincoln said "We are as happy as we decide to be”
Why am I talking about happiness when I was asked to talk about Gratitude? Because they go hand in hand.  
After you make a decision to be happy and find joy in any circumstance then the next step is to be grateful. Gratitude is the gateway to happiness and joy.
one of my favorite authors Dennis Prager said:
“All happy people are grateful. Ungrateful people cannot be happy. We tend to think that being unhappy leads people to complain, but it’s truer to say that complaining leads to people becoming unhappy.” 
President Uchtdorf: It might sound contrary to the wisdom of the world to suggest that one who is burdened with sorrow should give thanks to God. But those who set aside the bottle of bitterness and lift instead the goblet of gratitude can find a purifying drink of healing, peace, and understanding.… . We can choose to be like the Prophet Joseph Smith, who, while a prisoner in miserable conditions in Liberty Jail, penned these inspired words: “Dearly beloved brethren, let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power; and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for his arm to be revealed.” … . Being grateful in times of distress does not mean that we are pleased with our circumstances. It does mean that through the eyes of faith we look beyond our present-day challenges.
 D&C 78:19 And he who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious; and the things of this earth shall be added unto him, even an hundred fold, yea, more.
Gratitude is a decision just as is happiness.  Something changes in our countance when we decide to feel gratitude and to be happy. President Gordon B. Hinckley said, “When you walk with gratitude, you do not walk with arrogance and conceit and egotism, you walk with a spirit of thanksgiving that is becoming to you and will bless your lives.”
When you make a decision to be happy and grateful you look different. People look better to you. Life looks better to you and you look better to those around you. You reflect happiness and gratitude back to those you live and associate with and make their lives better. You become a light to to others and magnet for good things.
I have a dear dear friend of many years whose life did not go down the path she thought it would. She wanted marraige and children and that didn't happen for her. We often talked about why Heavnely Father made her go through this and why was this happening to her? Over the years there were lots of tears and sorrow and often a negative attitude about the church and families and what she was lacking in her life and the thought that she couldn't be happy because of her circumstances. Thankfully this changed! She started reading some talks, and books about the power of choice and choosing to be happy and grateful for the blessings you have and stop compaining and feeling sorry for yourself.  A marvelous change occured! Her attitude and countenace became happy and positive and she stopped feeling sorry for herself and started feeling grateful for her many blessings! Amazingly, she has been blessed with an abundance in so many areas of her life that she never expected.  I truly believe that all these blessings were waiting for her but didn't come until she looked at her life differently and made a conscious decision to feel gratitude and to be happy.
President Monson:
We can lift ourselves and others as well when we refuse to remain in the realm of negative thought and cultivate within our hearts an attitude of gratitude. If ingratitude be numbered among the serious sins, then gratitude takes its place among the noblest of virtues. Someone has said that “gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.” 
Close by expresing my gratitude for my Savior Jesus Christ, who is the author of all blessings and happiness.